The Girl Who Is Going To Lose...(HELP*)

ringettestar03 · 11-02-2009, 03:17 PM

some girls in my class are very very very rude to me. in basketball today all 3 get crowded around me (in the horse world you would teach the horse to stay out of your **** space, but no, this is girl world) so anyways, they were circled around me, i had no where to go (this was 3on3 basketball) so I elbowed the closest one!

they FLIPPED! (this happened last week in basketball too, same people) they got into their little group and *inappropriate language* about me to the other prissies...

then in the locker room they proceeded to call me a *****

(and my BFFwho did nothing wrong)so i stood up for her! THEY CALLED MY COWGAL BOOTS *inappropriate language* AND UGLY(which makes them *inappropriate language*

) their little "group" then ramed into me when the bell rang when i was on my way out of the locker room. THEN....

they *&^% pushed me into my locker!!!!!!!!!!!! We have been fighting back and forth for a while. i took one of the pop's "seats" and she flipped she told me to move the *&^% but no!! (you cant let horses get away with stuff, you need to teach them that its not right!!!) She dumped my stuff on the floor!! So i pushed the desk into her...she fell. and that was the end of it...

Now people i am not the kind of person who gets in fights here, but I am not about to let them push me around and tell me what to do. The last thing I want to do is get in a fight with the most popular girls in my grade!

I am not cool (maybe in my own cowgirl/ringette star way but not to them.) no one stands up for me but me! I really need HELP advice or something..... thx. i might move lockers (they are beside my BFF) i might go to my coucellers......I DONT KNOW????

:confuse d:

HELP

xlilxonex · 11-02-2009, 03:36 PM

I wouldn't retaliate how you did... What grade are you in?

ringettestar03 · 11-02-2009, 03:36 PM

grade 7...

xlilxonex · 11-02-2009, 03:38 PM

It's middle school..
Ignore them and let it roll right off your back...

Gallop N Gal · 11-02-2009, 03:42 PM

^Yep

Most likely they are trying to get a reaction out of you. By ignoring them, they lose.

ringettestar03 · 11-02-2009, 03:57 PM

hmm.. i will try. i just hate to let them take advatage of me. you know?

HunterJumper101 · 11-02-2009, 04:08 PM

Yeah... it's very hard to ignore them. It makes me feel like a push over but it doesn't mean you are one. It makes you the mature one. But honestly ignoring them is the best thing to do. If you want it to blow over it's what needs to be done.

paintpony1 · 11-02-2009, 06:30 PM

i was the joke in middle school, the weird one, i know where your coming from. i was the weird horse girl. it gets better. i promise =)

Haflinger_Lover · 11-02-2009, 07:11 PM

Middle school (or junior high where i live) is one of those times when girls LOVE to do stuff like this. I agree with the others, don't do anything. They feed off of this stuff. If you just laugh it off and just give them that smirk like you know you're better eventually they will get sick of it. What is the point in taunting someone when its getting no reaction right? I wouldn't worry about it too much the older you get the less drama you have (in most cases)

ringettestar03 · 11-02-2009, 07:47 PM

thanks, everyone. i will try my best and update you one what happens tommorow...lets hope good things

11-02-2009, 03:17 PM	#1
ringettestar03 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Alberta Posts: 5	*The Girl Who Is Going To Lose...(HELP) some girls in my class are very very very rude to me. in basketball today all 3 get crowded around me (in the horse world you would teach the horse to stay out of your ** space, but no, this is girl world) so anyways, they were circled around me, i had no where to go (this was 3on3 basketball) so I elbowed the closest one! they FLIPPED! (this happened last week in basketball too, same people) they got into their little group and inappropriate language about me to the other prissies... then in the locker room they proceeded to call me a ***** (and my BFFwho did nothing wrong)so i stood up for her! THEY CALLED MY COWGAL BOOTS inappropriate language AND UGLY(which makes them inappropriate language ) their little "group" then ramed into me when the bell rang when i was on my way out of the locker room. THEN.... they &^% pushed me into my locker!!!!!!!!!!!! We have been fighting back and forth for a while. i took one of the pop's "seats" and she flipped she told me to move the &^% but no!! (you cant let horses get away with stuff, you need to teach them that its not right!!!) She dumped my stuff on the floor!! So i pushed the desk into her...she fell. and that was the end of it... Now people i am not the kind of person who gets in fights here, but I am not about to let them push me around and tell me what to do. The last thing I want to do is get in a fight with the most popular girls in my grade! I am not cool (maybe in my own cowgirl/ringette star way but not to them.) no one stands up for me but me! I really need HELP advice or something..... thx. i might move lockers (they are beside my BFF) i might go to my coucellers......I DONT KNOW???? :confuse d: HELP Last edited by Shotgun93; 11-03-2009 at 06:49 AM. Reason: inappropriate language

11-02-2009, 03:36 PM	#2
xlilxonex Senior Member+ Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 3,294 Images: 24 Blog Entries: 1	I wouldn't retaliate how you did... What grade are you in? __________________ I <3 My Curly http://bbspinnaker.webs.com/

11-02-2009, 03:38 PM	#4
xlilxonex Senior Member+ Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 3,294 Images: 24 Blog Entries: 1	It's middle school.. Ignore them and let it roll right off your back... __________________ I <3 My Curly http://bbspinnaker.webs.com/

11-02-2009, 04:08 PM	#7
HunterJumper101 Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Austin Texas Posts: 382	Yeah... it's very hard to ignore them. It makes me feel like a push over but it doesn't mean you are one. It makes you the mature one. But honestly ignoring them is the best thing to do. If you want it to blow over it's what needs to be done. __________________ "I’m so hungry I could ride a horse... I don’t get it. Well, I could ride it to the store, I guess." -Chris Griffin

11-02-2009, 06:30 PM	#8
paintpony1 Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Podunk. Posts: 1,244 Images: 30	i was the joke in middle school, the weird one, i know where your coming from. i was the weird horse girl. it gets better. i promise =) __________________ ride a paint horse c u s t o m c h r o m e*

11-02-2009, 03:42 PM	#5
Gallop N Gal Senior Member+ Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Land O' Cheese Posts: 5,356 Images: 850 Blog Entries: 2	^Yep Most likely they are trying to get a reaction out of you. By ignoring them, they lose.

11-02-2009, 03:57 PM	#6
ringettestar03 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Alberta Posts: 5	hmm.. i will try. i just hate to let them take advatage of me. you know?

11-02-2009, 07:11 PM	#9
Haflinger_Lover Full Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 79	Middle school (or junior high where i live) is one of those times when girls LOVE to do stuff like this. I agree with the others, don't do anything. They feed off of this stuff. If you just laugh it off and just give them that smirk like you know you're better eventually they will get sick of it. What is the point in taunting someone when its getting no reaction right? I wouldn't worry about it too much the older you get the less drama you have (in most cases)

11-02-2009, 07:47 PM	#10
ringettestar03 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Alberta Posts: 5	thanks, everyone. i will try my best and update you one what happens tommorow...lets hope good things

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