New guy problem!!!

zenith · 05-05-2006, 06:50 PM

hey
if you read my other post 'is this going to fast' you will know exactly what this is about, but it dosnr matter.

i went to dump him on MSN but before i even said i he told me that he is going to commmit suicide if he looses me!!!!

so i didnt say anything to him.

is he just playing? trying to keep me?? i am sooo confused!

i am going to go to the teachers and the school counciler about it but what should i do now, should i get rid of him still?

madi

Dakotah · 05-05-2006, 07:29 PM

omg! you really need to talk to someone important and cares about him and you, then you might wanna try to talk to him. Also you should also pray, that scared me when i saw this post. DO NOT get rid of him til you've talked to him and someone important to him and/or you.

Ureventer · 05-05-2006, 07:33 PM

Definitly talk to your conselor about this. He is trying to make you feel guilty by letting him go (and doing so successfully since it sounds like you are feeling terrible), and you shouldn't have to be in that situation. I would try to lessen your contact with him in the meantime.

Rising Star · 05-05-2006, 08:23 PM

Omg i feel so sorry for you. Your young, you should have to deal with that kind of stuff, or be pressured into it by your "boyfriend" who is suppose to "care" about you. Talk to some one asap. If you dont feel confident or anything to talk to some one at your school or anything like that then try one of the teen help lines. I have never used one, and hopefully wont have to, but Ive heard that they really do help you pretty good!

good luck and hopefully everything works out and he leaves you alone.

--Rising

ImAJumperBaby · 05-06-2006, 06:47 PM

this happened to me a while back,
the exact same thing, he would threaten me that he would commit suicide/ take pills to kill him self (o.d)
it was awful.
after we broke up, he said that he wasn't actully gunna do it he just didn't wanna end it between us.
its much better if you break it off now, before it gets to out of hand,
im pretty sure hes not going to kil him self over a break up,
how old are you?
and how long have you guys been "dating"?

zenith · 05-07-2006, 03:00 AM

ummm only like 1 week... i am only 14
madi

paint_gurl_101 · 05-07-2006, 10:49 AM

wow! that sounds horrible! i would go to the school consiler and talk to them about it.

XOXO
nikki

zenith · 05-09-2006, 03:07 AM

hey guyz... thanx for the advice, i have taken it, i havre booked in to see the school counciler. i dumped him (he was really upset)
i m kind of worried about seeing the counciler because i dont know what they are going to ask or say?
thanx again
madi

BarebackJourney · 05-09-2006, 06:15 AM

Goodluck with everthing! If this is how he'll take a one-week relationship, I can't imagine how he'd be like after a few months... ahh! I don't know what's wrong with him, he's obviously not healthy or thinking straight. Or who knows, it could all just be a game to him. 14 year olds are so dramatic... but you are handling it graciously. =)

lulu136 · 05-09-2006, 02:53 PM

He might be kiding, but just in case I would talk to someone!

05-05-2006, 06:50 PM	#1
zenith Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Vic, Australia Posts: 432 Images: 129 Blog Entries: 6	New guy problem!!! hey if you read my other post 'is this going to fast' you will know exactly what this is about, but it dosnr matter. i went to dump him on MSN but before i even said i he told me that he is going to commmit suicide if he looses me!!!! so i didnt say anything to him. is he just playing? trying to keep me?? i am sooo confused! i am going to go to the teachers and the school counciler about it but what should i do now, should i get rid of him still? madi

05-05-2006, 07:29 PM	#2
Dakotah Full Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Country Town, Georgia! Posts: 93 Images: 9 Blog Entries: 1	omg! you really need to talk to someone important and cares about him and you, then you might wanna try to talk to him. Also you should also pray, that scared me when i saw this post. DO NOT get rid of him til you've talked to him and someone important to him and/or you. __________________ COWGIRL UP!!! * Deuces Wildcard- 16hh, Paint Horse * ~ Leena- Great Pyreness ~ ` Mr. Kitty- My brown & white kitty!`

05-05-2006, 07:33 PM	#3
Ureventer Senior Member+ Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 5,413 Images: 8 Blog Entries: 45	Definitly talk to your conselor about this. He is trying to make you feel guilty by letting him go (and doing so successfully since it sounds like you are feeling terrible), and you shouldn't have to be in that situation. I would try to lessen your contact with him in the meantime. __________________ ♥Formal Attyre

05-09-2006, 06:15 AM	#9
BarebackJourney Senior Member+ Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: North Carolina Posts: 2,184 Images: 193 Blog Entries: 6	Goodluck with everthing! If this is how he'll take a one-week relationship, I can't imagine how he'd be like after a few months... ahh! I don't know what's wrong with him, he's obviously not healthy or thinking straight. Or who knows, it could all just be a game to him. 14 year olds are so dramatic... but you are handling it graciously. =) __________________ Intuition tells me how to live my day, Intuition tells me, when to walk away.

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05-05-2006, 08:23 PM	#4
Rising Star Senior Member+ Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Manitoba, Canada Posts: 2,639 Images: 476 Blog Entries: 1	Omg i feel so sorry for you. Your young, you should have to deal with that kind of stuff, or be pressured into it by your "boyfriend" who is suppose to "care" about you. Talk to some one asap. If you dont feel confident or anything to talk to some one at your school or anything like that then try one of the teen help lines. I have never used one, and hopefully wont have to, but Ive heard that they really do help you pretty good! good luck and hopefully everything works out and he leaves you alone. --Rising

05-06-2006, 06:47 PM	#5
ImAJumperBaby Full Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Ontario Posts: 298 Images: 19	this happened to me a while back, the exact same thing, he would threaten me that he would commit suicide/ take pills to kill him self (o.d) it was awful. after we broke up, he said that he wasn't actully gunna do it he just didn't wanna end it between us. its much better if you break it off now, before it gets to out of hand, im pretty sure hes not going to kil him self over a break up, how old are you? and how long have you guys been "dating"?

05-07-2006, 03:00 AM	#6
zenith Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Vic, Australia Posts: 432 Images: 129 Blog Entries: 6	ummm only like 1 week... i am only 14 madi

05-07-2006, 10:49 AM	#7
paint_gurl_101 Banned Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Hippie Town Or. Posts: 680 Images: 40 Blog Entries: 7	wow! that sounds horrible! i would go to the school consiler and talk to them about it. XOXO nikki

05-09-2006, 03:07 AM	#8
zenith Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Vic, Australia Posts: 432 Images: 129 Blog Entries: 6	hey guyz... thanx for the advice, i have taken it, i havre booked in to see the school counciler. i dumped him (he was really upset) i m kind of worried about seeing the counciler because i dont know what they are going to ask or say? thanx again madi

05-09-2006, 02:53 PM	#10
lulu136 Junior Member Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 15 Blog Entries: 2	He might be kiding, but just in case I would talk to someone!