I totally agree with your suggestions regarding that goofy mare, pretty can't be ridden, and there are excellent uglies out there, pretties too I imagine, and safe is worth it's weight in gold. Signed another concerned mom.

You might try this other forum, which is specifically geared toward draft horses...
http://www.draftresource.com/
Very nice people, lots of good info specific to the big guys/gals.

Thanks for the welcome to the draft owners club!