Does age matter in a relationship? KIDS ONLY

jade HEre · 10-20-2009, 04:02 AM

hey one of my close friends in 14, she just got asked out by a 20 year old and said yes....is that wrong.......im a little confused, i mean i think its weird but what do u guys think?

FutureVetGirl · 10-20-2009, 04:57 AM

At this time in her life, 14 vs 20 is a HUGE age gap. If you're 30... it's not too bad to date someone who's 36. But she's still a kid. Goodness... she's the same age as my little brother. And a 20 year old? That's two years older than my older brother.

Not only will they have little in common, maturity-wise (and physically), they most likely have even less. It's also just not a very wise choice for a younger teen to date an older guy. I'm not saying that necessarily something will happen, but... think of it logically. What is usually on a 20 year old guy's mind when it comes to being with girls? Do you really want that kind of guy going out with your friend, who's 14, most likely very innocent and impressionable (innocent in that she has little experience with guys)?

I dunno... that's just my two cents.

Buckshot · 10-20-2009, 08:26 AM

I'm 17, and I wouldn't date anyone over 21...

When I was 14, I don't think I would've considered anyone past 16. He should stick to chicks his own age.

jade HEre · 10-20-2009, 04:22 PM

thanks.. i just needed someone agreeing with me......how can i get her to see that this is wrong?

jade HEre · 10-20-2009, 05:04 PM

omg i just got an email form him telling me his total intentions, he just said he loves her and wouldn't even touch her until she was of age..............i still don't know................even more suspicious now

rider4life422 · 10-20-2009, 05:13 PM

There is NO need for someone that old to be messing with a young girl. Do her parents know?

BootsOn · 10-20-2009, 05:40 PM

Is that even legal?

jade HEre · 10-20-2009, 05:54 PM

her parents dont know and i dont know if it is illegal, i just think its gross..... i getting worried about her

jade HEre · 10-20-2009, 06:12 PM

thanks everyone, i will have to tell her all your comments and try to convince her to break up with him..............thats going to be hard

jade HEre · 10-20-2009, 06:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Babeesgirl

Okay.

Well I hope she listens to you. He will say anything because shes younger trust me hes a guy and guys will say anything he may say oh I wont do anything but he will I guarantee you.

yer the gross thing is that she barely knows him, they met over the internet

10-20-2009, 04:02 AM	#1
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10-20-2009, 04:57 AM	#2
FutureVetGirl Senior Member+ Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: The Lone Star State Posts: 4,049 Images: 57	At this time in her life, 14 vs 20 is a HUGE age gap. If you're 30... it's not too bad to date someone who's 36. But she's still a kid. Goodness... she's the same age as my little brother. And a 20 year old? That's two years older than my older brother. Not only will they have little in common, maturity-wise (and physically), they most likely have even less. It's also just not a very wise choice for a younger teen to date an older guy. I'm not saying that necessarily something will happen, but... think of it logically. What is usually on a 20 year old guy's mind when it comes to being with girls? Do you really want that kind of guy going out with your friend, who's 14, most likely very innocent and impressionable (innocent in that she has little experience with guys)? I dunno... that's just my two cents. __________________ brutality begins where skill ends \| competitive riding should be classical riding at its best \| you cannot train a horse with shouts and expect it to obey a whisper I'm 100% PRO Slaughter. For any horse... in any country. Please just call me Kelli. FVG is OK though.

10-20-2009, 08:26 AM	#3
Buckshot Senior Member+ Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Michiana Posts: 7,194 Images: 43 Blog Entries: 19	I'm 17, and I wouldn't date anyone over 21... When I was 14, I don't think I would've considered anyone past 16. He should stick to chicks his own age. __________________ HGS's official Birdbrain The Big Year: Goal: 255 Currently: 260 Last Species: Ancient Murrelet

10-20-2009, 04:22 PM	#4
jade HEre Full Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: tenterfield, Australia Posts: 432 Images: 41	thanks.. i just needed someone agreeing with me......how can i get her to see that this is wrong? __________________ To Ride Or Not To Ride?....What A Stupid Question!

10-20-2009, 05:04 PM	#5
jade HEre Full Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: tenterfield, Australia Posts: 432 Images: 41	omg i just got an email form him telling me his total intentions, he just said he loves her and wouldn't even touch her until she was of age..............i still don't know................even more suspicious now __________________ To Ride Or Not To Ride?....What A Stupid Question!

10-20-2009, 05:13 PM	#6
rider4life422 Senior Member Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 388 Images: 120	There is NO need for someone that old to be messing with a young girl. Do her parents know?

10-20-2009, 05:54 PM	#8
jade HEre Full Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: tenterfield, Australia Posts: 432 Images: 41	her parents dont know and i dont know if it is illegal, i just think its gross..... i getting worried about her __________________ To Ride Or Not To Ride?....What A Stupid Question!

10-20-2009, 06:12 PM	#9
jade HEre Full Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: tenterfield, Australia Posts: 432 Images: 41	thanks everyone, i will have to tell her all your comments and try to convince her to break up with him..............thats going to be hard __________________ To Ride Or Not To Ride?....What A Stupid Question!

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