Does age matter in a relationship? KIDS ONLY

horse_mom · 10-20-2009, 06:38 PM

I'm sorry but that is wrong. Her parents need to be told, I'm sure they wouldn't approve!

jade HEre · 10-20-2009, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by horse_mom

I'm sorry but that is wrong. Her parents need to be told, I'm sure they wouldn't approve!

i know but i dont want to be the one to tell them

minihorses4ever · 10-20-2009, 07:59 PM

If she won't listen to you, let her parents know.

Honestly, that is ILLEGAL, and just plain wrong. There is no way a 20 year old has good intentions with a 14 year old.. Heck, I don't even know if that boy (man?) is compeletly sane. That is just creepy thinking about how he could be attracted to a 14 year old.. That would be like me going out with a ten year old! Sheesh.

jade HEre · 10-20-2009, 11:31 PM

omg i am near tears now, he just apparently asked her to send him some pics(not of her face either) and she did....this has gone tooo far i am going to call her mum

Moostang · 10-21-2009, 05:30 AM

***This thread is KIDS ONLY, that means if you are 18 or over do not reply, if you feel the need to say something PM the OP***

TB Jumpers · 10-21-2009, 06:12 AM

Thats weird. Shes weird. Hes like 20 and shes liek 14 HES A CHILD MOLESTOR.

Goodbye now.

Haflinger_Lover · 10-21-2009, 12:56 PM

I personally think that is a little bit of a stretch. I am a senior and i have a friend who is 17 and she is going out with a 22 year old but in this situation it is her best friend's brother. But she is 17 not 14. And i don't even think that is legal because she's is a "minor"... IMO this could become a bad situation. I agree with everyone on this post so far. As you get older (over 18) that whole age difference tends to become irrelevant however at your friends age it still is a bit much to date someone 6 years older espeically in these critical years

TeeK987 · 10-21-2009, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by jade HEre

yer the gross thing is that she barely knows him, they met over the internet

Ok, that right there would scare me..
Anyway i also agree with everyone. This is a bad situation.. As someone else also said i beleive, theres alot of difference there, in maturity both physically and mentally.. I would be extremely scared for her..
I wont even look at guys out of my "age" group...
Did you call her parents like staited?

horseyfrk145 · 10-21-2009, 01:15 PM

Definitely talk to her! Tell her that you're worried and only care about her and her safety and happiness. Tell her it's illegal. Ask her what she would do if you were in her situation. My last step would be to talk to her parents (but I would definitely do it if you feel the need!), as I know how kids like to rebel against parents - especially if their friends are siding with parents, it just makes it harder for them to see what's right in front of them sometimes. Try to reason with her, this is just a bad situation that's only going to get worse.

jade HEre · 10-21-2009, 04:35 PM

yer i called her parents but they didn't believe me

i was soo shocked.........these are their exact words...." no she would not behind our back like that and do something so teeriable...she ia way to mature to even think about that...you must have got the story wrong" what could i do i was in a near state of panic i just slammed the phone down.. got on my computer and emailed the guy to leace her alone and choose a girl closer to his age group and ya wanna know what he wrote bac here it is "as the saying goes age dosent mater....if she loves me as much as ii love her than it will work out no matter what you say it wont make a diffrence to us" i atually did start crying.........WHAT DO I DO NOW?????

10-20-2009, 06:38 PM	#11
horse_mom Senior Member+ Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: ca Posts: 2,519 Images: 6	I'm sorry but that is wrong. Her parents need to be told, I'm sure they wouldn't approve! __________________ Jag<3 29 yrld appendix quarter Spirit<3 7 yrld mustang http://cowgirlgracie.weebly.com/blogd.html Jenny<3 9 year old donkey Hannibul<3 R.I.P, my old man,love forever!!

10-20-2009, 07:59 PM	#13
minihorses4ever Senior Member+ Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: TX Posts: 1,552 Images: 28	If she won't listen to you, let her parents know. Honestly, that is ILLEGAL, and just plain wrong. There is no way a 20 year old has good intentions with a 14 year old.. Heck, I don't even know if that boy (man?) is compeletly sane. That is just creepy thinking about how he could be attracted to a 14 year old.. That would be like me going out with a ten year old! Sheesh. __________________ -Bre Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

10-20-2009, 11:31 PM	#14
jade HEre Full Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: tenterfield, Australia Posts: 432 Images: 41	omg i am near tears now, he just apparently asked her to send him some pics(not of her face either) and she did....this has gone tooo far i am going to call her mum __________________ To Ride Or Not To Ride?....What A Stupid Question!

10-21-2009, 05:30 AM	#15
Moostang Senior Moderator Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Northern Calif Posts: 11,221 Images: 760 Blog Entries: 55	*This thread is KIDS ONLY, that means if you are 18 or over do not reply, if you feel the need to say something PM the OP* __________________ A train station is where the train stops. A bus station is where the bus stops. On my desk, I have a work station... http://moostangproductions.com http://www.hoovesnirons.com

10-21-2009, 06:12 AM	#16
TB Jumpers Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: NC Posts: 668 Images: 62	Thats weird. Shes weird. Hes like 20 and shes liek 14 HES A CHILD MOLESTOR. Goodbye now. __________________ "Anytime you reinvent yourself or do something you want to do, there are going to be people who don't understand it, because it's you. I think overall it was a good response and it's doing really well right now.” ~ Johnny Christ

10-21-2009, 12:56 PM	#17
Haflinger_Lover Full Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 79	I personally think that is a little bit of a stretch. I am a senior and i have a friend who is 17 and she is going out with a 22 year old but in this situation it is her best friend's brother. But she is 17 not 14. And i don't even think that is legal because she's is a "minor"... IMO this could become a bad situation. I agree with everyone on this post so far. As you get older (over 18) that whole age difference tends to become irrelevant however at your friends age it still is a bit much to date someone 6 years older espeically in these critical years

10-21-2009, 04:35 PM	#20
jade HEre Full Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: tenterfield, Australia Posts: 432 Images: 41	yer i called her parents but they didn't believe me i was soo shocked.........these are their exact words...." no she would not behind our back like that and do something so teeriable...she ia way to mature to even think about that...you must have got the story wrong" what could i do i was in a near state of panic i just slammed the phone down.. got on my computer and emailed the guy to leace her alone and choose a girl closer to his age group and ya wanna know what he wrote bac here it is "as the saying goes age dosent mater....if she loves me as much as ii love her than it will work out no matter what you say it wont make a diffrence to us" i atually did start crying.........WHAT DO I DO NOW????? __________________ To Ride Or Not To Ride?....What A Stupid Question!

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