[racerprincess]

Any one ever have a pretty bad break up and want to share? well i'll share mine last night this guy ive been dating for like 3 months we broke up it was so hard cause he was my longest relationship but both of us just got messed up he thought i was pulling away and i thought he was pushing me away and we both just need time to think. how long should i wait till i go talk to him again? a month or two or longer?

[luv2show]

Why would you wait that long? How old are you, if I may ask?

[ShowJumper23]

It really depends.

I broke up with my boyfriend of one year, and we still talked every day. We're best friends now.

And then I broke up with whats-his-face (dated for a month) , and that wasn't pretty, but he didn't treat me well (told me he went out with me because he was desperate, and then lists off the other chicks he likes), and we didn't talk. At all. I hated him, and regretted going out with him in the first place. But then, the last 2 weeks of school we were assigned as partners for a project, and we would joke around and stuff. Then we were pretty much on good terms again. I saw him the other day at orientation for school, and I was like "Hey! Whats-his-face (yeah, I said that to his face, lol), How's it going?" And we hugged and chatted as we waited in line. We're on good terms now, but nothing else is ever going to come out of the situation.


I don't think there is a set time limit, I say just give each other some space, and don't hold a grudge. You guys will start talking again when you are both ready. Don't worry too much about it.

[racerprincess]

I just turned 16 and it was kinda a bad break up.

[kellyface]

A boyfriend of mine and I broke up in March and within a week of us breaking up we'd exchanged every cuss word in the book to each other when we walked past each other. About a week after that we sat down and talked about the choices we had made and understood where the other one is coming from. Since then we've talked everyday and i'd consider him a best friend. It really depends on what you want to do, sometimes it'll take you being the bigger man and being like "Hey, we need to sit down and talk" Hope this helps!

[misbehaveqt1]

If you're only 16 you've got alot ahead of you through high school. Im in my last year im almost 18 and i've been with my boyfriend through everything we've been together for 2 years we had a nasty break up last fall because we stopped communicating sometimes you just need to sit down and talk. Thats a good thing in all relationships alot of the times all you say to each other is i love you and you call them baby or babe sometimes it's nice to call them by their name.

[riderofthehorse]

Well, now I do He just broke up with me last night. I don't get it though. So here's the story:
Saturday (2 nights ago), he had a pool party with about 8ish friends. Everything seemed great. We all had a good time and it was cute because he looked like he was still totally into me. The only drama that night was that my friend broke up with her bf after I left because they just weren't talking very much anymore and didn't feel the same at all. So last night, Travis and I were discussing this and he wondered if it would be weird when we all got together again, and I casually just said probably not too bad they just won't talk much for a while. A little bit later, he goes "maybe we shouldn't go out anymore". What?! Why? So he gave me some c.rap about how he didn't want for that to happen, that later on down the road we did break up and it didn't end well and that we wouldn't talk or be friends anymore. I promised him I wouldn't do that, because what was different between us and them was that we were super close friends beforehand. But no, he jsut goes "idk if it would be I just wanna be really really good friends like we were before, at least for right now"
So I'm a bit crushed. Actually more than a bit. I don't think it makes sense to be so worried about breaking up in the future that you just do is sooner So I pretty much just feel unwanted. Which is probably the case. I never really got guy logic. But at least I made it through typing this with dry eyes...

[FatSpottedAppy]

Back when I was 14-15 I was dating a guy I really liked.. Well, he kept sending mixed signals, broke up with me and asked me out and I was just completely twitter-patted so I'd always just wait for him to ask me back out. The last time he broke up with me it was was for an absolutely ridiculous reason.. I cried for quite a bit then I realized that he was just a stupid, worthless boy. Then I met my Jake and we've been dating for going on 2 and a half years next month. I'm 17.

[RainyDe987]

this is a pretty short story bt here ya go:

i had been dating a guy for 10 months and he broke up with me because he liked my best friend. and then he had the gull to lie about it and say it was because ofone of my other friends. bt i knew the real reason already. i look back on it and go "WOW i really should have seen that coming" bt it really hurt. and even though it has been almost a year since all of this it still kinda hurts. we havent talked since which is hard since i see him everyday during the school year. bt something that hurts worse is that he couldnt even break up with me himself.
how sad is that! haha another sad thing this was my first BF. lol
im 15 which i know is young bt oh well ya know

[RainyDe987]

Originally Posted by kellyface

About a week after that we sat down and talked about the choices we had made and understood where the other one is coming from. Since then we've talked everyday and i'd consider him a best friend. It really depends on what you want to do, sometimes it'll take you being the bigger man and being like "Hey, we need to sit down and talk" Hope this helps!

man do i wish i would have been able to do that bt im a pretty shy person and just couldnt and its a little late now