boy stuff...need help-UPDATE post 18

kaitlyndzn · 09-02-2008, 05:31 AM

ok i may just be paranoid but im soo bad at the whole starting to date thing...where your kinda both interested but its so new and wether or not its gonna continue etc. so i need advice:

so i met this guy bryan and hes soo sweet. VERY quiet which is nice. But being with him and hanging out with him was soo easy. it was like it just fit right. even if its not like "dating" hes one of those people i click right with...but anyway we hung out twice and had alot of fun. he seemed to like it and walked me to my car holding my hand and saying how he enjoyed himself.

we dont talk on the phone (which i dont mind) and he doesnt really text either...i guess most of our talking is done in person or online which takes it back to when i was "dating" in middle school haha no offense

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so its been like two days...we talked last night a lil online. but he really doesnt call me or im me first or anything like that. do you think hes still into me? or is he just quiet? do you think i should call him or wait it out? i kno its early and everyone says wait a few days but hes a nice guy. and they are hard to find!!!

ChevyGurl · 09-02-2008, 05:34 AM

If hes not the one to call first then why not call him? You said he was quiet so hes probably shy about making first moves. Good guys ARE hard to find so if your interested dont let him slip by!

kaitlyndzn · 09-02-2008, 05:43 AM

haha ok ill try...i dont want to seem like the nagging girl tho you know? haha uhhh boys!! i never know what is right. im way overthinking it i know

kaitlyndzn · 09-02-2008, 09:59 AM

anyone else? i still am confused...i picked up cues that he was interested. but now that i havent hung out im wondering if he is...

Buckshot · 09-02-2008, 10:03 AM

I'd call him.

Tell him how you feel about him, but ALSO tell him that you're okay with being just friends if he's not wanting more right now. (That is, if you ARE okay with it...LOL)

Yeah, I'm kind of paranoid of being the "nagging girl" too, but repeatedly calling him would be what classifies as "nagging" in my book, not just calling him a few times.

kaitlyndzn · 09-02-2008, 11:45 AM

thanks!! haha hes not a big talker...very quiet like i said earlier. when we have talked he seems to be flirty and interested back. i guess we will have to see...i just hate getting all excited and then nothing come out of it so im trying my hardest not to be

RainyDe987 · 09-02-2008, 02:35 PM

i would call! thats what i had to do! lol. if you think hes a good guy call! wont hurt!

riderofthehorse · 09-02-2008, 05:55 PM

Sounds like he's just too shy to make the first move. But it really sounds like he's into you!!!

AdamW · 09-02-2008, 07:38 PM

Definitely call him. Guys find it attractive when women are really forward.

kaitlyndzn · 09-02-2008, 09:48 PM

haha well we actually talked on AIM lol i know right...and i asked to hang out tomorrow and he said, and i quote :"mmmmmkkkkk!!! lol"

haha wish me luck

09-02-2008, 05:31 AM	#1
kaitlyndzn Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Maryland :) Posts: 692 Images: 32	boy stuff...need help-UPDATE post 18 ok i may just be paranoid but im soo bad at the whole starting to date thing...where your kinda both interested but its so new and wether or not its gonna continue etc. so i need advice: so i met this guy bryan and hes soo sweet. VERY quiet which is nice. But being with him and hanging out with him was soo easy. it was like it just fit right. even if its not like "dating" hes one of those people i click right with...but anyway we hung out twice and had alot of fun. he seemed to like it and walked me to my car holding my hand and saying how he enjoyed himself. we dont talk on the phone (which i dont mind) and he doesnt really text either...i guess most of our talking is done in person or online which takes it back to when i was "dating" in middle school haha no offense . so its been like two days...we talked last night a lil online. but he really doesnt call me or im me first or anything like that. do you think hes still into me? or is he just quiet? do you think i should call him or wait it out? i kno its early and everyone says wait a few days but hes a nice guy. and they are hard to find!!! __________________ "The gift of horses is a great one, for they enable us to fly without wings..." Last edited by kaitlyndzn; 09-09-2008 at 06:09 AM.

09-02-2008, 05:34 AM	#2
ChevyGurl Full Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: NJ Posts: 239 Images: 58	If hes not the one to call first then why not call him? You said he was quiet so hes probably shy about making first moves. Good guys ARE hard to find so if your interested dont let him slip by! __________________ -All horses deserve, at least once in their lives, to be loved by a little girl.

09-02-2008, 05:43 AM	#3
kaitlyndzn Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Maryland :) Posts: 692 Images: 32	haha ok ill try...i dont want to seem like the nagging girl tho you know? haha uhhh boys!! i never know what is right. im way overthinking it i know __________________ "The gift of horses is a great one, for they enable us to fly without wings..."

09-02-2008, 09:59 AM	#4
kaitlyndzn Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Maryland :) Posts: 692 Images: 32	anyone else? i still am confused...i picked up cues that he was interested. but now that i havent hung out im wondering if he is... __________________ "The gift of horses is a great one, for they enable us to fly without wings..."

09-02-2008, 11:45 AM	#6
kaitlyndzn Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Maryland :) Posts: 692 Images: 32	thanks!! haha hes not a big talker...very quiet like i said earlier. when we have talked he seems to be flirty and interested back. i guess we will have to see...i just hate getting all excited and then nothing come out of it so im trying my hardest not to be __________________ "The gift of horses is a great one, for they enable us to fly without wings..."

09-02-2008, 02:35 PM	#7
RainyDe987 Full Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: MN Posts: 187 Images: 50	i would call! thats what i had to do! lol. if you think hes a good guy call! wont hurt! __________________ <3 I AM THE OWNER OF A PAINT WANNA BE! AND IM PROUD OF IT! <3 <3 RAINBOW DELITE 10 Y/O BREEDING STOCK PAINT MARE <3

09-02-2008, 05:55 PM	#8
riderofthehorse Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: wisconsin Posts: 808 Images: 185	Sounds like he's just too shy to make the first move. But it really sounds like he's into you!!! __________________ -Alex- Boldly Going Nowhere. I've been Snowball'd!

09-02-2008, 07:38 PM	#9
AdamW Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 341	Definitely call him. Guys find it attractive when women are really forward. __________________ Don't be wastin' all your money on syrup and honeeeey.

09-02-2008, 09:48 PM	#10
kaitlyndzn Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Maryland :) Posts: 692 Images: 32	haha well we actually talked on AIM lol i know right...and i asked to hang out tomorrow and he said, and i quote :"mmmmmkkkkk!!! lol" haha wish me luck __________________ "The gift of horses is a great one, for they enable us to fly without wings..."

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