[horserider2772]

So I urgently need some help!! I've asked so many people about this, but I trust horsey people the most. So here it goes!! WARNING : GETS COMPLICATED!!

So here's who's involved:
Me
Charlie (THE guy)
Skylar (Charlies bff/ guy i used to like)
Allie (long time bff used to date Skylar and charlie)
Gem (Dated Charlie twice/ bff for 2 years)
Kam (dated charlie/ bff )
Jenyse (skylar's girlfriend)
Eowyn (charlies new thanggg/gf)

So basically, I was invited to Allie's birthday, lots of people were there but pretty much it was everyone on the list above but not eowyn (there were more but it gets too complicated)

So I heard tons of things about this CHARLIE, and he went out with kam.. then she dumped him cause he was going behind her back with gem. so then he goes out with gem, but dumps her cause he misses kam who doesnt take him back.

So basically I swore I would hate charlie... forever. But I started liking Skylar who was dating Jenyse. Yet Charlie liked me... for 6 whole months. Anyways, he was apparently dating another girl who nobody knew and the day after we met he dumped her.

Charlie asked me out about 3 months after we met, i said no because i liked skylar. about 2 months later he asked me out again and i said yes because i started really liking him. I called gem and asked her if it was okay and like if she still really liked him. She said she really liked him and it would just hurt her basically if we went out. So the next day i told him that i couldnt because of gem and i still kinda liked skylar and it just wouldnt be fair to anyone.

BUT i still liked him. I finally got over skylar and gem and charlie started dating. Charlie would call me 24/7 even when he was with gem. One night he called me and we were talking about when we used to like eachother. He asked me if i still liked him and i said yes. Then he told me he still liked me too. We would ALWAYS flirt and he was all over me all the time which really made people angry.

Charlie went to camp about a week ago, came back and talked to gem and told her he "fell in love" with Eowyn who is 2 years younger than him and just getting into highschool!! So gem dumped him.

Then me allie and charlie all hung out the other day and he was literally flirting more than ever! He was tickling, hugging, cuddling, putting his arm around me, the whole thing! So we all decided we wanted to rent a movie, so we go to rogers and come back and i was on the other side of the street walking towards my house when allie and charlie were talking. So basically charlie goes for a walk for an hour cause he says he was really upset. So i waited and waited, then allie left and he called me and told me to come outside.

So I went outside and he was being all jerky and was just being mean. So we just laughed it off after having a bit of a fight. We decided to go for a walk until like 1:30 am. The whole time he was flirting STILL and like massaging me and like being a total .... nice guy? So I started talking about Nick Jonas (LOVE) and i was like "OMG I LOVE HIM SOO MUCH" and he was like "Yeah, you used to like me too" and i said "yeah, i did." and he asked "Well... is it still true?" And i said "Maybe."

So basically we were hugging and cuddling and all that, then finally we went back to my house and he left but he gave me one of those everlasting hugs. So i was thinking, well maybe he still likes me????

BUT, i called my friend Kam, and she called him with allie and totally yelled at him saying he was leading me on while he was dating eowyn and blah blah... and she asked him if he still liked me.. he said "No."

Then allie told me when we went to whistler, and kam linked me and allie into a convo on the phone with him and she asked him again and he said "no kam i dont like her anymore" then he asked her to hang out....

So basically i had like a heart attack and i was soooo upset and just cried for a while. Then i started to get over it... and just accept that he was with eowyn and he doesnt like me anymore. We also called him after we were on the phone and told him that we heard what he said. His response "Ok"

So I was crushed, but me and allie decided to put pictures up on facebook and tag random things. So we tagged him and the next day he commented on the picture and just YELLED AND SCREAMED at me, calling me B**** and immature and egotistical and highstrung and to call him when i was more mature (which is a total joke)

So he hates me now, and im still head over heels for him. I dont know what to do anymore. He totally played me but i cant get him out of my head. HELP!! SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ADVICE!!!

[horserider2772]

Sorry its long

[Bernardo]

Advice! Stay away from him.

He's clearly a loser guy and doesn't deserve you. Just get over him, its not worth it. Don't make excuses for him like "well he's nice sometimes", if he's treating you like that now he will never treat you better in a relationship, especially if you just forgive him.

If it were me, I'd totally forget about him, it might be hard at first, but he's immature based on his actions.

Not worth it at all, that's just asking for trouble. Move on, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't ever put up with being treated less than a princess. (Not literally of course, but if a guy makes you feel like **** not worth it!)

[horserider2772]

yeah, lots of people are saying that. so many people are telling me that i should just let him calm down. i dont know what to do :S

[Bernardo]

Don't talk to him, cut him out of your life completely until he comes crawling on his hands and knees begging for forgiveness, and I mean that quite literally. And even after that, tell him you can just be friends. Don't ever think he'll change. At least not for a few years or more. He's a childish boy, they don't grow up until they are in their 20s at least and even that is early for some.

[horserider2772]

anyone help?? need more advice

[Hopeful Wishes]

STAY AWAY!!!!! You don't need someone like that in ur life.. Trust me.. been there done that and its NO FUN!!

[ridetolive]

been in your situation. its impossible to forget him, but staying away is completely possible and though not at first, it does help. Focus on something/someone else.

[horserider2772]

So here's a little update on the situation which makes things weird.

Allie, my "friend" blamed everything on me and thats why he was so mad. I explained it was both of us and sorry if we hurt him even though it was meant as a joke, and he apologized for acting like a Jerk. So again, should we still be friends? Should i still like him? Or should i shut him out for good...

[Missytwoshoes]

I think you are hoping someone will tell you to give him another chance. Unfortunatly I am not that someone. He is a loser you need to shut him out forever.