b/f issues

western*girl · 02-16-2006, 07:55 PM

my boyfriend and i have been going out for 7 months and ive never been to his house...we havent hung out outside of school for over a month.....what do u think i should do? i dont think i like him anymore but im afraid to break up with him

Jonie · 02-16-2006, 08:05 PM

Tell him, through a letter or something else, what you'r feeling. Explain to him why you don't think you like him anymore. If he's any kind of boy, he'll understand and respect your wishes...and maybe still stay a friend.

Just_me · 02-16-2006, 08:16 PM

I would just tell him straight out.I think if someone does it via letter or sends a friend to do the break up for you,sucks...it just shows a huge weakness!
The longer you wait,the more excuses you want to find,the harder it gets!Be honest with him and get it over with, he`ll understand(eventually

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Canadian Sage · 02-16-2006, 09:26 PM

If you dont like him anymore, end it.

It sounds simple and I know it isn't but thats the best thing to do. No matter how afraid you are, you need to do it.

Elia · 02-17-2006, 04:18 AM

Well, if you don't want the relationship, it's better to end it. But I am curious..

What's wrong with you not going to his house and not hanging out outside school? When me n my ex were goin out, we didn't go to each others houses. I'd been to his once (for a project) before we went out, and him and his buddy have been to mine for like 2 - 5 minutes before going there...(following me?)..but when we went out we only hung out at like lunch and walked together after school....

Oh, yeah. He was in my English class, so we talked then, too! LOL. This was b/cs my parents disapproved of our relationship, though.

I don't see anything wrong with that.

western*girl · 02-18-2006, 09:21 PM

well we dont have any classes together and we dont even talk on the phone and i opnly see him b4 and after school...sooo...

02-16-2006, 07:55 PM	#1
western*girl Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: MO Posts: 908 Images: 25	b/f issues my boyfriend and i have been going out for 7 months and ive never been to his house...we havent hung out outside of school for over a month.....what do u think i should do? i dont think i like him anymore but im afraid to break up with him

02-16-2006, 08:05 PM	#2
Jonie Full Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Gallant, Alabama Posts: 112	Tell him, through a letter or something else, what you'r feeling. Explain to him why you don't think you like him anymore. If he's any kind of boy, he'll understand and respect your wishes...and maybe still stay a friend. __________________ I am an atheist, thanks be to God.

02-16-2006, 08:16 PM	#3
Just_me Senior Member+ Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: europe-the wide wild world:-) Posts: 2,519 Images: 6	I would just tell him straight out.I think if someone does it via letter or sends a friend to do the break up for you,sucks...it just shows a huge weakness! The longer you wait,the more excuses you want to find,the harder it gets!Be honest with him and get it over with, he`ll understand(eventually ) __________________ ,.:+`The OnLy Place Where YoUr DreAms BecOme ImpoSsIble,Is In YoUr Own ThinKing`+:.,

02-17-2006, 04:18 AM	#5
Elia Senior Member+ Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Earth, of course. Posts: 307 Blog Entries: 16	Well, if you don't want the relationship, it's better to end it. But I am curious.. What's wrong with you not going to his house and not hanging out outside school? When me n my ex were goin out, we didn't go to each others houses. I'd been to his once (for a project) before we went out, and him and his buddy have been to mine for like 2 - 5 minutes before going there...(following me?)..but when we went out we only hung out at like lunch and walked together after school.... Oh, yeah. He was in my English class, so we talked then, too! LOL. This was b/cs my parents disapproved of our relationship, though. I don't see anything wrong with that. __________________ "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain." ~Maya Angelou

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